Apparently it’s “jet-setter” (but not the wealthy, socialite kind, just the ordinary person who travels to faraway places). At first when my local banker called me a jet-setter as I was giving a travel alert for my debit card, I was taken aback. Jet-setter sounded a bit snobby to me. It sounded better than emptynester which sounds kind of, well, empty, but it sounded somewhat uncomfortable to me. Do others think of me as some sort of snob because I am lucky enough to travel and then post about it, I wondered?
Then something happened and I kind of embraced the idea of being a jet-setter (again, not the wealthy, socialite kind). Connected to the main issue in a way I will soon explain, is a story I overheard about an elderly person who declined further lifesaving treatment because she said, “I haven’t had a very interesting life and have nothing to live for." I was told that her only two children had already passed away. Beyond sad, I thought, but not right, I decided. On the one hand, I could understand the possibility of having little to live for if you had lost all those who you loved, partners and children, parents, siblings and dear friends, especially if you were ill. What I couldn’t understand was the idea that a whole life could be labelled as being so uninteresting that you wouldn’t want to live. WHAT!
The past “chapters of my life” have been titled “child” (can’t even remember that chapter), “student”, “wife” (still am), “daughter and sister” (still am, luckily), “lawyer” (yes true, although many of you don’t know that), “mother of young children" (my favorite chapter), “mother of grown-up children” aka “emptynester” (not as much fun), "sex symbol" (no, I made that up to see if you were still reading), “volunteer”…and now, “jet-setter”.
Nothing has been perfect and there have been parts that were disappointing (especially the part where I still haven’t lost that last 10 pounds of pregnancy weight gain after 24 years). BUT, I have to say, it’s never been uninteresting!
It’s all been very interesting and very gratifying. Being so blessed to be able to travel to faraway places makes this current chapter of my life so interesting and fun and happy and exciting...and gratifying. I am thankful and thrilled to be so lucky to see the world with Chad.
It’s all been very interesting and very gratifying. Being so blessed to be able to travel to faraway places makes this current chapter of my life so interesting and fun and happy and exciting...and gratifying. I am thankful and thrilled to be so lucky to see the world with Chad.
So allow me to indulge myself in my GRATIVACATION and I hope you enjoy what I have to say.
But I have to ask, “What makes your life interesting?" “What is the current chapter of your life called?"
You are a beautiful writer. I love reading your blogs. Thanks for sharing your jet setting with us!
ReplyDeleteFood for thought. I definitely don't think of you as a snob... world traveler, adventure seeker, grateful & honest... pretty darn cool my dear. Love following your thoughts & travels.
ReplyDeleteYou are not a snob. You and your hubby are enjoying yourselves doing what you like to do. I love reading your blog and so enjoy your photos of your travels. Keep it up and don't concern yourself about what others think. Can't wait until your new adventure.
ReplyDeleteYou totally missed your calling in life... Hipster/Techie Travel Agent! And "jet setting" may have some "stereotyped" connotations, but your outlook on world travel through the eyes of a "local" finding the less traveled paths ,off the beaten trail adventures make you more of a "trek setter" than a jet setter...but best part of the journies through your blog , are the feelings and impressions, the food and the fun, the nuances and discoveries that you find in each journey ...keep traveling, keep blogging,and keep enjoying your life...we all paid our dues to home, family and community... now its time to give to ourselves a little ( or even a lot!) Have fun...because life's too shot not to!
ReplyDeleteThanks for saying this.
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